The Shocking Truth About the Lives of Gay Men

Gay men are steeped in shame. There is no gay man in this culture who has not been invited to indulge in a great amount of shame creation and subjugation. No matter our backgrounds, our subculture is one that invites shame. America is both sex obsessed and sex phobic. This makes for disturbing and horribly… Read More »

Why Every Queen Needs a Goddess

When Private Dancer hit the charts, I drove everybody around me nuts. While my parents constantly threatened to throw the goddamn album out the window if I continued to play it, I ignored their loving and gentle warnings and purchased another copy. What my parents and all the other haters didn’t understand was that I… Read More »

Three Things That Gay Men Should Give Up

Whether it is big or small screen,gay men are everywhere. We are often served images that reinscribe stereotypes: the raving queen, the hard core -rough trade -nobody knows I’m gay, the “I will fuck anything” and have no moral center gay, and finally, the culture expert/innovator who entertains. It is time we reclaimed our brilliance,creativity,power… Read More »

Seven Tips to Make Your Parenting Suck Less

When I began teaching, I wanted six children of my own. Once I entered the classroom and noticed the pure insanity of the “system”, the way children were treated and expected to learn and one awful teacher to many, I rethought my decision. I assumed that it was the educator’s job to educate no matter… Read More »