Monthly Archives: October 2012

Why living in the maybe is costly

Many times in life we are presented with opportunities. We are then required to say yes or no. Iyanla Vanzant mentioned this in a video I recently viewed. Being obsessed with the power of choice, I have begun looking at what occurs in my life when I respond to people, events, opportunities with a vigorous,… Read More »

Why gay men don’t know how to date

My first male to male relationship began at seventeen with a queen as confused as myself. My second and full on living together,constantly drama-filled torturous relationship began at 20 and ended at 23. Because I had no self esteem and had spent time being brutalized,my third shot at glory lasted a year. Reviewing all of… Read More »