Anthony is interviewed on the show “Journeying with Dr. Ni” on BlogTalkRadio.com. Running time: 1 hour 49 minutes. It is always a thrill to meet someone who thinks, acts and challenges themselves and the world. Please have a listen and get inspired to create change in your life and community. Your browser does not support… Read More »
Whether it is big or small screen,gay men are everywhere. We are often served images that reinscribe stereotypes: the raving queen, the hard core -rough trade -nobody knows I’m gay, the “I will fuck anything” and have no moral center gay, and finally, the culture expert/innovator who entertains. It is time we reclaimed our brilliance,creativity,power… Read More »
Celibacy is Unrealistic Gay men are taught that everything must be handled sexually. Celibacy is a wonderful way for gay men to handle emotional needs without sexual activity. We are not encouraged to seek counsel to deal with our problems in ways that require silence, contemplation or self- reflection. We are supported in using one… Read More »
When I first moved to California, I began meeting and talking with several men who were homeless hustlers. Miguel,Sean and a few other attractive and kind individuals schooled me in the ways of making money with your body. This was not new to me. Living in Harlem many years ago, my neighbor who lived down… Read More »
When we are seeking love, most of us will risk becoming infected with HIV.
As a young boy, I yearned for my father’s love and respect. I learned early what this would require. Being the brilliant and socially aware man that my father was, he not only foresaw the opportunity of making a great deal of money working on Wall Street, he started grooming me to take my stint… Read More »
Dear HIV, I am sending you this brief note because once again you have pissed me off.
On Valentine’s Day 2010, I was dumped twice.
When I was nineteen, a family friend who was also a doctor terrorized me. In addition to misdiagnosing me, I was made to feel ashamed, stupid and just plain bad about myself for being both attracted to men and acting on this attraction. To this day, I still hate and dread doctors. This was my… Read More »
Recently, our brilliant Republican friends, with Dan Burton (R-IN) leading the way, have decided to cut major funding for Planned Parenthood. He also submitted legislation that would provide contraceptives for wild horses and burros to control the size of wild herds out west.