Author Archives: Anthony

How to Divorce-Proof Your Marriage

When gays started getting married in droves some years back, there was much discussion of how this would solve all of our collective problems. HIV/AIDS, cheating spouses, promiscuity would all disappear or so we were lead to believe. With enough courage and the claiming of very understandable rights, we would all get the benefits of… Read More »

Seven Resources for Achieving the Dangerous Life You Were Born to Live

Admit it… You are not living the life you dreamt of as a child. When you were young, you sought joy, play, self expression and love. Dreams and free thinking has been replaced with credit card payments, barely tolerable day jobs and a life so awful you spend hours fantasizing about the weekend or a… Read More »

How Bosses Gamble with Your Financial Future: 6 Ways to Protect Yourself

Being fired sucks! And I’ve been in this boat on more than a few occasions. If you’ve ever worked for anyone you’ve agreed to the life-altering possibility that is being an at-will employee. As my wise mother always says: as long as you’re not the employer, you’re always an at-will employee. When someone controls your… Read More »

What Happens When We Lead with the Possibility of Loss

Whenever it has been time for some serious change, it has always been a series of steps that involve (loss) giving something up. Every major change requires the uncomfortableness of “giving something up”. Many times I have been frustrated when things don’t change. When things are not moving in the appropriate direction (mine) I constantly… Read More »

Why Viola Davis is the Ultimate Joy Revolutionist (Review of Finding Me)

“C#cks*ck*r mother f*cker” was my favorite expression and at eight years old, I used it defiantly.” This is the opening line to a wonderful newly released autobiography. Welcome to the universe that is Viola Davis. This exceptional autobiography provides insight into the actress of the 21st century. Whether dealing with bullies, self doubt or a… Read More »

Why Your Job is Making You Fat Part 2

At a recent meeting and in couple’s counselling all over the world, the same tired tune is played. We don’t communicate. When I recently heard this statement, I gently offered the insight that no we don’t have a communication issue; we have an accountability issue. So much of what passes for communication in the work… Read More »