For many years, I was awash in curiosity about sociopaths and their behavior. In my twenties, I jumped from one ill fated and doomed romance to another always stating these dumb ass responses for my behavior: He “should” love me. He “should” give me some kind of act right. He “should ” want to be… Read More »
If we really want to move forward and make some changes, we’ve got to get and keep our minds together. So many of us are bat shit crazy with no desire to get better. We can’t move forward when so many of us are consumed with emotional and psychological pain. I have met several people… Read More »
We should stop allowing the media and pop culture to raise our children and teach them anything other than how to entertain. Everyday, I am bombarded with images and lingo that teach our children nothing. While it is not the responsibility of creatives and artists to censor and limit their work and vision, it it… Read More »
Stop worrying about what white folks think or feel about you. Much of our collective suffering and inability to rethink solutions and possible outcomes have their root in the seduction and performance that is whiteness. Far too many of us believe that we can appease the “theys” in our worlds if we constantly and stupidly… Read More »
“Learn to value what’s right over what’s easy.” Suze Orman We live in a society of instant messaging and the ability to meet, interact with and co-create with strangers and friends all over the world. There is little reason to work hard and plan long term. Everyday I am surrounded by and deal with entitled,… Read More »
Whenever I have worked with young people, the issue of safety is obsessively focused on. You can’t touch them (unless it is in front of other people and even then it’s frowned upon). You can’t be too involved or concerned and above all you can’t share any personal information that would provide real world insight… Read More »