At a recent meeting and in couple’s counselling all over the world, the same tired tune is played. We don’t communicate. When I recently heard this statement, I gently offered the insight that no we don’t have a communication issue; we have an accountability issue. So much of what passes for communication in the work… Read More »
Stop worrying about what white folks think or feel about you. Much of our collective suffering and inability to rethink solutions and possible outcomes have their root in the seduction and performance that is whiteness. Far too many of us believe that we can appease the “theys” in our worlds if we constantly and stupidly… Read More »
Living unapologetically can only occur as one ages.
I have a wonderful friend who is constantly getting dumped because the women he goes out with don’t feel that special spark. He is straight. I have another friend who dumps people after dating less than two weeks because he doesn’t feel that “spark”. He is gay.
Six pack abs, huge cocks , all night sex parties and drug induced orgies are now officially over.