Author Archives: Anthony

Why indiscriminate promiscuity is the best solution for eliminating racism

Upon recently finishing the thought provoking and paradigm shifting, WHY ARE FAGGOTS SO AFRAID OF FAGGOTS ?, I am convinced that racism is cloaked in preference and one way to defeat racism is to (safely)sleep around indiscriminately. What does this entail ? It means for those of us cruising the internet or public places that… Read More »

Another gay male secret: I’m so disappointed

When I attempted to reconcile a doomed relationship for the third time in five years, my heart was broken and my mind was fried. I already knew the answer to the question “can this relationship be saved ?” No. It can’t. As black gay men, we get inducted into a lifetime of disappointment at a… Read More »

Why gay men don’t know how to date

My first male to male relationship began at seventeen with a queen as confused as myself. My second and full on living together,constantly drama-filled torturous relationship began at 20 and ended at 23. Because I had no self esteem and had spent time being brutalized,my third shot at glory lasted a year. Reviewing all of… Read More »

3 Things that screw up black and white gay male relationships Part 2 : Rooting around in our sexual past

I have dated many men who felt the need to recant and rail on about every sexual encounter they have ever had. I always thought this is why good friends are created. Much like Carrie and the girls discussing every dating and sexual triumph and hiccup over scrambled eggs and coffee, good friends allow us… Read More »

3 things that screw up black and white gay male relationships

Recently, I wrote about ways that black and white men can create loving and growth inducing relationships. Many folk simply ignored the posts or maybe felt they needed no insight or help in this area. My mind wanted to explore the things that we do to fuck up our relationships. Focusing on three key issues… Read More »